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Ask Amy: Cohabiting couple struggles to unpack their “stuff”

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 10:29:46 GMT

Dear Amy: I’m a middle-aged man. My fiancée recently moved in with me.My family had hoarding issues for generations. Long before Marie Kondo and hoarding intervention TV came along, I was in therapy and successfully dealing with this.I’ve disposed of multiple dumpster loads of my ancestors’ stuff, in order to have room to live in my inherited home.My possessions bring me joy.I’m a design professional with a lot of experience working with clients in their homes.I understand that hoarding is an obsessive compulsive disorder, but I also see compulsive decluttering as a big problem. I’ve been inside homes that were virtually empty due to this.While visiting a friend who was downsizing I realized how anxious stuff, boxes and clutter made my fiancée. We had to end the visit early because she was so anxious!When she is stressed, she “purges” objects and sometimes buys others, only to return or donate them. Some things I treasure have “disappeared.”I make space...

Bridge: May 21, 2023

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 10:29:46 GMT

Some of us were in the club lounge discussing the role of memory at bridge: short-term memory to recall the cards that are played; long-term memory for the experience on which to base judgment.“I don’t see how some players remember every deal after a session,” a newer players remarked.“They’re like a major-league pitcher,” Cy the Cynic offered, “who can remember every pitch he threw after a game. It’s just what he does.”“Maybe you can remember the deals,” a senior member sighed. “At my age, memory is what reminds me of something I’ve forgottenthat I was supposed to remember.”When you have a problem in declarer play, just remembering what has happened in the bidding (and the play so far) may not be enough; helpful information may be available, but declarer must interpret the evidence.In today’s deal, North opened one heart, after which there was no stopping South short of 6NT. West led the deuce...

Word Game: May 21, 2023

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 10:29:46 GMT

TODAY’S WORD — PEACEFULLY (PEACEFULLY: PEES-fuh-lee: In a quiet, tranquil manner.)Average mark 43 wordsTime limit 60 minutesCan you find 57 or more words in PEACEFULLY?TODAY’S WORD — PEACEFULLY pace pale pall payee peace peaceful peal peel pelf place play playful plea puce pule pull pulley eyecup eyeful alee alley ally cafe calf call cape capful cell clay clap clef clue cull cully face fall feel fell felly flap flay flea flee fleecy flue fuel full fully lace lacy lapel leaf leafy leap yell yule yelpTo purchase the Word Game book, visit WordGameBooks.com. Order it now for just $5 while supplies last!RULES OF THE GAME:1. Words must be of four or more letters.2. Words that acquire four letters by the addition of “s,” such as “bats” or “dies,” are not allowed.3. Additional words made by adding a “d” or an “s” may not be used. For example, if “bake” is used, “baked” or “bakes” are not allowed, but “bake” and “baking” are admissible.4. Proper nouns, slang words, or...

Horoscopes May 21, 2023: Lisa Edelstein, move on to what beckons you

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 10:29:46 GMT

CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Fairuza Balk, 49; Lisa Edelstein, 57; Nick Cassavetes, 64; Judge Reinhold, 66.Happy Birthday: Stick to basics, verify facts, and offer honesty and integrity. Refuse to participate in anything that doesn’t feel right or safe to you. Approach this year as a turning point where you let go of what’s no longer applicable in your life, and move on to what beckons you. It’s time to branch out and do the things that put a smile on your face. Your numbers are 3, 11, 20, 27, 36, 41, 45.ARIES (March 21-April 19): Take on a narrative that will help you attract the help you require to get what you want. How you juggle your time and interact with others will give those around you faith in your ability to work toward a common goal. Protect your health. 4 starsTAURUS (April 20-May 20): Don’t give away too much information. Someone will try to take over or take credit for your idea. Put your energy into development and differentiate yourself from...

Zelenskyy denies Bakhmut occupied by Russian forces

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 10:29:46 GMT

HIROSHIMA, Japan (AP) — Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelenskyy said Sunday that Russian forces weren’t occupying Bakhmut, casting doubt on Moscow’s claims that the eastern Ukrainian city has fallen.Responding to a reporter’s question about the status of the city at the Group of Seven meeting in Hiroshima, Japan, Zelenskyy said: “Bakhmut is not occupied by the Russian Federation as of today.”THIS IS A BREAKING NEWS UPDATE. AP’s earlier story follows below.KYIV, Ukraine (AP) — Ukrainian soldiers were still engaging Russian forces in fierce battles in and around Bakhmut on Sunday, military officials said, hours after Moscow and the private army Wagner announced that their troops had taken full control of the eastern city.The fog of war made it impossible to confirm the situation on the ground in the invasion’s longest battle, and a series of comments from Ukrainian and Russian officials added confusion to the matter.Ukrainian Deputy Defense Minsiter Hanna Malyar even...

Afghan ministry says helicopter crash kills 2 crewmembers during patrol in country’s north

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 10:29:46 GMT

ISLAMABAD (AP) — An Afghan military helicopter crashed in the country’s north Sunday after hitting a power line base, killing at least two crewmembers, the Defense Ministry said. The MD-530 chopper was patrolling in the area after it took off from northern Balkh province and crashed in the Kholim district in Samangan province, a ministry statement said.Officials said the chopper hit the base of a high voltage power line before crashing.It’s unclear how many helicopters, including U.S. choppers, are in the hands of the Taliban-run government. As the U.S.-backed Afghan government collapsed in mid-August 2021, dozens of Afghan pilots fled to Central Asian countries, including Tajikistan and Uzbekistan.Afghan air force pilots played a key role, alongside their U.S. counterparts, in the 20-year war against Taliban insurgents. The conflict ended with the departure of foreign troops from Afghanistan in 2021. Helicopter airstrikes inflicted heavy casualties among the Taliban and...

Zelenskyy says at G7 that Bakhmut is ‘not occupied by Russian Federation as of today’

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 10:29:46 GMT

HIROSHIMA, Japan (AP) — Zelenskyy says at G7 that Bakhmut is ‘not occupied by Russian Federation as of today.’Source

Biden says Zelenskyy has given US a ‘flat assurance’ that Ukraine won’t use F-16 jets to attack Russian territory

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 10:29:46 GMT

HIROSHIMA, Japan (AP) — Biden says Zelenskyy has given US a ‘flat assurance’ that Ukraine won’t use F-16 jets to attack Russian territory.Source

Biden says GOP has to move off ‘extreme’ positions, no deal to avert default to be made solely on its ‘partisan terms’

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 10:29:46 GMT

HIROSHIMA, Japan (AP) — Biden says GOP has to move off ‘extreme’ positions, no deal to avert default to be made solely on its ‘partisan terms.’Source

Writers Guild expected to picket Warner Bros. CEO’s appearance at BU commencement

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 10:29:46 GMT

Boston University students can expect to see a picket line as they make their way to graduation ceremony on Saturday, that’s because striking Writer’s Guild Association members will show up as Warner Bros. President and CEO David Zaslav delivers the commencement address.Guild members have been striking for months, bringing many television and film projects to a hold.The university says there will be no changes to the commencement. Zaslav will also be receiving an honorary Doctor of Laws degree. This is a developing news story; stay with 7NEWS on-air and online for the latest details.